Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Whitecat Word-full Wednesday

mom is surprised that is has almost been one year since Caesar is gone.
So many kitties have gone to the bridge lately. We know their pain and deeeep sorrow
Mom says you must take your time to grieve, never rush or let others decide that your grieving should be completed.
One thing that was very helpful for mom was that she printed out many of the tributes to Caesar from all of you on your blogs in Blogger land and looked at them regularly. She also printed out a few of her favorite photos of Caesar and took them with her in her purse, kind of like she was taking Caesar with her. What ever works for you to give you comfort you must do that. Never rush your grieving, never push yourself to get over it and move on.

Thank you for the praise you gave Pierro for his very first solo Mancat Monday. He was so proud of your comments he raced around the house for two hours!

All of you are loved very much by me.
purrrs and
May the sun shine, all day long,
everything go right, and nothing wrong.
May those you love bring love back to you,
and may all the wishes you wish come true!
~Irish Blessing


Karen Jo said...

You give very good advice, Princess. I also find it hard to believe that Caesar has been gone almost a year.

michico*Adan said...

This is a very good advice.
With the time pass,
we only will remember the good part of our family, not the sadness of losing feeling.
Because that's what they wish for, they must don't want us keeping sad.
I still miss Caesar very much, also very hard to believe it's already 1 year, that is very quickly, I am sure he is doing very well and protecting you all :)

Big Big hugs for you and your family always,

Parker said...

Prinnie, your Mom is right. She is very smart.
Smoochies to you today my beautiful white friend.

Cheysuli and gemini said...

That is very wise. We were thinking about you when we did our post retrospective because we saw it had almost been a year.

The Meezers said...

your mommy is furry smart and wonderful. we miss caesar too.

Kaze, Latte, & Chase said...

We can't believe all of the loss and the fact that its almost been a year. You're very right about grieving, its different for everyone.


Daisy said...

Has it really been almost a year? Caesar was so well-loved that he still remains fresh in our hearts and minds.

Luna said...

Oh dear it is really nearly one year since Caesar is gone?
Prinnie we know what you mean. Mom is sometimes grieving so much for Frieda. She is not every day sad but there are times she miss Frieda more.

Caesar also remains in our thoughts forever!


meemsnyc said...

We all miss Caesar too! Big hugs to your mommy.

The Furry Kids said...

Well said, Prinnie. We like your quote today, too.

Keisha said...

Wub and kisses to Caesar in Heaven.

Country Cats said...

Hello Princess that it good advice. It is nice to meet you.

-Rosie, Kaleb, & Teal'c-

Ramses said...

Very wise words Prinnie! :)

Forty Paws said...

Goodness. We can't believe it's been almost a year. Your Mom has very good advice.

We were looking at all of your lufferly Chrissymouse fotos. Including your next door neighbor's lit-up house! Very good fotos!

Luf, Us

Mickey,Georgia , Tillie said...

Hello Pretty Princess !!!!!!!!!
I agree with you very much. Our brother Moxie will be gone 2 years in March and we still miss him. Guess we always will. I bet you will always miss Caesar too.
It is nice to have memories,but sometimes they are not enough...we want them back.
I am glad Pierro was happy!!! He is going to be a fine Mancat!!
Purrs Mickey

Milo and Alfie said...

It never seems to get any easier when you lose a dear little cat. Mom's cat Henry died in 2004 - now over 4 years ago - and she still misses him like crazy. We talk about him a lot and that helps.
Now Caesar has been gone almost a year too - please accept our heartfelt purrs and warm ((((((hugs))))) from Mom - 'cos she said she knows just how you're feeling.